Nigerian actor cum politician, Kenneth Okonkwo has some important advice for people in relationships.
He said that no matter how upset one is about their relationship, they should not threaten to breakup with their partners unless they mean it.
He opined that in a moment of anger, lovers should focus on what got them angry without bringing up the threat of initiating a breakup. He Wrote;
”No matter how upset you are, don’t threaten your partner with a break up unless you mean it. Focus your anger on what they’ve done without bringing up the threat of a break up. No relationship is without its ups and downs. Don’t let anyone deceive you. You will quarrel and you will fight. You will have sad days; you will disagree some days and not find a common ground over some issues. Compromises don’t always happen. These are normal things in a healthy relationship.
The key to a lasting relationship is being with someone you can actually communicate your feelings to and have a solutions-based approach towards conversations; someone who doesn’t just communicates, but reciprocates the energy you give to them. Someone who always bares their mind and accumulate pent-up anger. Someone who forgives easily and reverts to their default factory mode of playing and laughing. This is the key.
Good morning beloved fans”.
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